Our Offerings

Coercive Control is an abusive practice that expands beyond isolated incidents of violence or verbal rage. Coercive Control is a human rights crime - an violation of one’s liberty, personhood, and autonomy.

It is a gender-based oppression.

No matter where you are in your process of identifying, navigating, disentangling, or managing post-separation coercive control, you are not alone in your journey. This experience is currently in your life, and it is in your life for a reason. We are here to educate and support mothers walking this path not only with resources and methods of preparation fo the logistical processes of the legal, social, and mental health systems, but mainly in the Blue Bear Way… the Way to hold onto or reclaim yourself in times of extraordinary suffering, stress, strain, and unspeakable abuse to one’s self and to her children.

This Way can save your health, your children, your soul, and your life.

Check out our services below and find what fits you:

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STEPS(S) Consult Call

No Cost - 50 minutes, phone or video call

STEPS stands for Strategic Type & Temperament Evaluation for Personal Success. Created and developed by our founder, Sarah, the Introductory STEPS(R) call is designed to help a mother in the midst of the chaos of coercive control find a safe place to connect about herself, reclaim her best gifts, ask about recommendations and resources, and gain referrals to providers and other support services.

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STEPS(R) Support Circle

Donations appreciation/No Cost - 90 minutes weekly via video call; 4 Week Course Contact Us to learn about next course start date

STEPS(R) Consult Call is a prerequisite to joining

Here we take what we learned in our STEPS(R) Consult Call and deeper our understanding of ourselves and our healing journey as we employ concepts from the Enneagram, Somatic Experiencing, Positive Psychology, and breaking free from codependence in a class-based setting. Lots of discussion is woven into each lesson as we grow and build ourselves in this season, accepting where we are and opening ourselves to our higher and true life purpose.

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The Blue Bear Way Support Circle

Donations appreciated/No Cost. 60 minutes Weekly via video call STEPS(R) Consult Call is prerequisite

The BBW Circle of Safety is an anonymous learning and growth group for parents affected by coercive control abuse who are ready and committed to disengaging from the deeply held self-limiting beliefs that cause them to continue to experience the coercive control abuser’s behavior in ways that intensify their pain, cause them illness, and derail their wellbeing and lives. Here we apply principles for living as taught by Christ Jesus, his disciples and other spiritual masters from a variety of faiths and disciplines so we can rise above the dark energy of abuse, raise our thoughts, strengthen our hearts, and fully engage with our passion while being unattached to the outcomes. Learning to trust our higher power and engage in specific mind-setting, thought-shifting, and physically and emotionally recentering practices to reclaim our direction, power, agency, and selves.

More Supportive Offerings

PACCT: Persons Against Coercive ConTrol

Join PACCT - our Advocacy group and receive notifications about advocacy and legislative events where your voice can make a difference in the lives of women and children experiencing the oppression of coercive control.

ISAVE: Intimate partner Sexual Abuse and Violence Education

Register for ISAVE, Sarah’s original marital and intimate partner sexual abuse education course and learn about respectful practices for a truly rewarding and fulfilling sexual and intimate relationship MORE

ISAVE: Intimate partner Sexual Abuse and Violence Education^for Teens!

Register for ISAVE for Teens for your Youth Group, Class, or team, Sarah’s original marital and intimate partner sexual abuse education course and learn about respectful practices for a truly rewarding and fulfilling sexual and intimate relationship MORE

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